Two guys

I just got to have a 3 way with two guys, so much fun! it was with my bf, B, and the second D I play with. I so love being able to share my playmates with my bf. It's just so much of a turn on. now we just have to find a single girl to play with. This weekend we are going to the nude beach with the first D so another 3 way for me! plus we do tend to get an audience when we play at the beach. and i do like to be watched. should be a fun day.

4 way

me and B had our first 4 way with another couple, C&T. it was a blast. it was such a turn on to see B doing her from behind while she licked me and I gave her man head. they are such a fun couple. they seem to like B as well. looking forward to playing with them again. things are going so well with B, so glad we were able to take it to the next level.

nude beach

just got back from the nude beach with D and G we had a blast! when we started playing we ended up with a bit of a crowd watching us lol. and i gave a complete stranger a blow job. lol i did manage to give my phone number to a couple so me and B can play with them. hope it works out. can't wait to tell B all about my day.

I'm in love

so i am head over heels in love with B and he with me. it's been a whirl wind few weeks, seeing each other lots. I finally have someone to swing with! been testing the waters on line seeing what couples we can meet up with ect. so far have two I've been talking to but none we have met yet. besides D&G that i met before B and I started dating. B seems to be everything I've been looking for, he's kind and caring, treats me well and will do anything for me (within reason). and he doesn't want to restrict me in any way. so our relationship is a totally open swinger thing. our only rule is that if we have sex separately that we tell the other person before if possible or after. That gives me the freedom i need. But something happened the other day that i want to talk about. B got kicked out of the room he was renting from a friend simply because he came out to them as a swinger! they said it was a moral issue. This is why most swingers are so in the closet. we still get discriminated against for our sexual choices. Really it's none of their business. He only told them because he had to explain the girl he had over for the night. it just makes me sad that some people can be so closed minded. This is why i am so open about being a swinger. if i decide i want to be friends with someone i come out to them about being bi and a swinger. I see how they react and that is how i can tell if i can be friends with them or not. I just like to lay all my cards on the table right away. i figure why waste time with people who are going to judge me.

new boy friend

So I officially have a new boyfriend. B is just so good to me and everyone who knows him says he is a good upstanding guy. We spent the whole week together, when he wasn't volunteering and the local soup kitchen anyways. i decided he was worth the risk. it's hard for me to take that risk, after i have been so hurt in the past. I've been single and happy for the last 4 years. Just hope things stay happy is all. I feel like i am always waiting for the other shoe to drop. waiting to see his bad side.... well I will just have to wait and see, and hope.

new guy

so in my last post i mentioned B who is spoiling me, well he is spending the weekend and we are acting like a couple of horny teenagers lol. he is easy to talk to fun to be with and he has this way of worshiping me that i could very much get used to. he doesn't have all the qualities i look for in a guy, but he has all the important ones. we agreed it would strictly be a FWB thing but i may find myself taking him more seriously.

moving on

i am moving on now, still haven't heard from R so i am going to just give up on that. In the last 2 weeks i have met two nice guys, both kinda sexy. B and S. S is a drummer, only 38, seems very nice. B i actually met here in town and was surprised to find out he was a swinger. he is spoiling me rotten with back and foot rubs. I am sad things have ended with R but excited to me new people.

So it's been a whole month since i have heard from R (guy from up north) he was supposed to try to come out for my birthday on the 16th but i never heard back from him. I tried to e-mail him but still no response. i am both worried something may have happened to him and thinking this may be just his way of dumping me. ether way I'll give him one more week then I'll have to move on and start dating again. I already met one new guy, S, just a FWB guy though. he's a drummer, only 38 and very sexy. hopefully going to see him again on Saturday.

hitachi magic wand

i finally got the Hitachi magic wand I have wanted for so very long. I am very excited, just tried it out and it works so very well! i recommend it to anyone, and no this is not an add I am just a big fan lol. D bought it for me. he is such a nice guy! As for other events, not too much has been happening, I am still taking a break from meeting new single guys. Last time i spoke to R (guy from the north I am totally into) he told me he had sold his house and was looking forward to moving to my area by the end of summer. So then we can date like normal people. I am very excited about it. But when he moves here I am going to have to call it off with D. Even though he is a nice guy I am not falling for him like I am R. I am even taking a break meeting new couple, i just want to see which of the ones i have met are going to turn into regulars before i meet any new ones.C&T seem to keep coming back at least. Haven't heard much from anyone else in awhile though. so that's all I have been up to lately.

sex tip #19

Over worked partners do not want sex. Studies show that the number one way to make a woman want sex is to help clean the house.

Is there such thing as too many 3 ways?

Is there such thing as too many 3 ways? I've had so many lately it is starting to feel normal instead of the treat it should be. It's just not as exciting anymore. don't get me wrong I still love them, but they are just not as thrilling as they used to be. This is exactly why most couples who play do not do it too often. They want to keep it an exciting treat. Maybe I should slow down a bit for awhile... naaa lol In other news R, the guy from the north is selling his house and moving closer. I am totally falling for him even though I have only seen him twice. He calls all the time. I love talking to him so I am very excited about him moving closer. He could rescue me from dating the single guys! I am getting so tired of the single guys. I stopped trying to meet new guys to take seriously (because of R)and and only dating booty calls, but even they are irritating me. They are always standing me up.

sex tip #4

When playing with bondage always go over what you want to happen and what you do not want to happen. And have a safe word or signal if you are gagged.

Went to another swinger dance on Saturday. Had fun, was a smaller group but we all still had fun. I didn't get to miss behave because I had my period :-( J of J&C came, I haven't seen him since they went to the states for the winter so i was excited about that. last week I got to see R, from the north. I was very excited. i am totally falling for him. just wish he didn't live so far away. can't wait to see him again. we should be doing a lot of camping this summer. so should be a good summer.

girl on girl fun

I've had an amazing week. I went to M's place and met all her animals, horses, mini horses, pigs, piglets, cats, chickens and a dog. I love animals so I loved it. we attempted to watch a movie but that didn't go to far before we went to the bedroom. There is something about being with just a girl that is so very different then being with a girl and guy or with a guy. it is hard to describe, all softness and gentle touching. i guess it is just nice to have a girl all to myself again.It was a very good night. Then I got to meet a new couple, B&E. B used to be like me and play with couples, she seems like fun. E was quiet but nice. We went to the strip club had a few drinks then back to my place to play. It was E's first time in a 3 way, we all had fun. I get to go to a dance at the end of the month with D and M is coming as well. I can't wait I have so much fun at these dances. So all in all a pretty good week. I hope this next week is just as good.

sex tip # 10

If you are going to tease a person always follow through. Don’t tease if you are not willing to go all the way. You would be turning something fun into something rude.

sex tip # 24

ALWAYS make the girl cum first, then no matter what you do she will be happy.

met a new girl!

So I met a new girl, M.She seems like a lot of fun. she lives a town over on a farm with 15 horses and a pig (pigglets). I so can't wait to go to here place a see the animals. I was our first date so we just talked, but I did get to play with her nipples :-). She has a bf but he is only in town 10 days out of 40 so mostly it will be just me and her. she already wants to go to the next swinger dance with me, I am so excited. It is so hard to meet other bi girls! So can't wait till I get to play with her!

The purity test

here is something fun to try http://www.puritytest.org/ how pure are you?

sex tip # 3

To let your partner know when they are doing something right moan louder when they hit the right spot. Guaranteed they will keep going back to that if they get a good response every time.

a bit slutty lately

So the last few weeks I have been a bit of a slut. Not that I am jumping into bed with just anyone. But I have gotten a lot of sex lately. The two new couples I have met, D and a new booty call guy, K, mean I have been busy lately. Funny thing is that the more sex I get the more I want. last Wednesday I got to play with N&D it was N's B-day so I got to be her birthday present. She was very happy with that. lol Then on Friday I went out of town to see T&T with their friend A. we went to a motel room, they had a pool so we swam and hung out in the hot tub for awhile. was so fun. then went back to hotel room to play for a few hours. Then on Sunday D came over for some play in the morning, then K showed up out of the blue wanting to play that night. So like i said a bit slutty. but hell I am having fun and not hurting anyone so why not be slutty once in awhile. That's what being a swinger is all about, right? Sometimes i wonder about what others think of me and what I do, but then I remind myself that I don't care! lol I do know that among my own, other swingers that is, I am accepted and well liked. Being accepted for who I am feels good.

sex tip #23

Girls do your kegall exercises, guys love it when you squeeze them, especially just as they are cumming.

more couples

So I met up with a couple last night that I have met before at swinger events. Apparently they were thinking of me and I just happened to come across their profile on line and e-mailed them! lol They are T&T. They invited their other playmate, a guy named A. (very good looking) we went out for drinks and munchies, then back to T&T's place for strip poker. Wasn't long before we were in the bedroom playing. I got to tick of one more to do thing of my list of things I want to do! I got to watch a guy give another guy head. It was quite a turn on! We all got along so well they want me back next Friday! I can't wait. I wasn't sure about them at first, I wasn't all that attracted to them when I met them before. Personality wins the day though. They are great people, she is so bubbly I just really enjoyed them, in and out of bed. I am more focusing on meeting couples right now, I've actually been talking to a few lately. I think it is because I have decided on R from the north and am just not trying to meet Single guys right now. I want to see how things pan out with R. plus I am just getting tired of all the first dates. Couples tend to stick around more and are more reliable. but I worry I may be talking to too many of them...how many is too many? Who knows?! It won't work out with a few anyways, right? I figure life is about enjoying it to the fullest, you never know how long you have. That's a big reason I am a swinger. Also being bi-polar makes me appreciate the times I am feeling good, so I have as much fun as I can each day and week.

The art if giving face

The art if giving face I will start by saying that girls can be harder to please. They are harder to turn on and it can take longer for them to cum. Communication is key. If she is comfortable talking to you about what she likes and wants the experience is better for both of you. Girls NEED foreplay!! I can’t stress that enough. Don’t just go straight for the vagina. I will cover foreplay in another article. So for now we will assume you have already worked on her and gotten her all hot and bothered. Lets start with basic anatomy. the mound, the area where a women’s triangle of pubic hairs are. The outer labia, the plump outer lips of the vagina Inner labia the pink inner lips Clit, located near the top of the vagina, protrudes into a nub when a girl is aroused Vagina the part the men are always trying to get in lol 1.Start slow, with stimulating the mound and outer labia, with gentle strokes of your fingers or even slightly firm pressure with your palm. The more you tease her the more sensitive she will be when you finally touch her. Some girls like gentle and some like things a bit more rough. Always start with gentle and apply more pressure on her request only. Too many guys are too rough with there hands. So we all know that you need to lick her, but how? 2.Light little flicks with the tip of your tongue Slow long strokes from bottom to top Then the basic steady lick, like a cat lapping milk. sucking on the clit sticking your tongue in the vagina rimming start with 2 to tease her 1 to get her going. Use a variety of all of them (only rim her if you have permission) but when she is getting close use 3 find the spot where you are licking her clit and almost the vag area. Allow her to shift, if she moves her hip higher or lower do not move with her, she is trying to find the sweet spot. When she is getting closer apply more pressure with your tongue and speed up. If you insert a finger in her vag and move it slowly in and out this can help her cum, or find the g-spot, but only gently stimulate it. Trouble shooting If she tells you she is close but just can’t cum for some reason - she is over stimulated, slow everything down go back to 2 and a bit of 1 but very, very gentle. Take your time, very slowly add more pressure and faster switch to 3. repeat as necessary. Inserting a finger in her vag can also set her off if she is close if she is always saying ouch, for sex’s sake be gentle!!! -Maybe start using lotion on your hands to soften them (make sure you do not have any on your hands when you start to play with her) always wash your hands, salts and other things you have touched that day can cause burning. If you have hair stubble, go shave! It feels like sand paper to us. Do not push your face into us so hard. Your jaw is sore go back and forth using your fingers to stimulate her clit, make sure she is well lubricated quick circular movements or side to side work best Common mistakes being too rough not starting slowly biting the clit (careful if you are sucking on it) giving to much stimulation internally with fingers. If the internal is more intense then the clitoral stimulation she will have a hard time having a clitoral orgasm moving away from her sweet spot when she is close. If she tells you she is close keep doing what you are doing, no not stop or change in any way. Stopping as soon as she cums. Unlike guys us girls need you to keep going until we push you away. If you stop our climax stops.

The art of giving head

The art of giving head If you are completely new to this or just would like a few pointers, everyone can learn a thing or two about mens favorite sex act. First make sure your guy actually cleans his penis before you start. You don’t want to put anything dirty in your mouth. So basics are in the licking and the sucking. Start slow you may be there awhile and you do not want your jaw getting to sore too soon. With licking you can lick up and down the shaft and around the head. Keep it varied between long slow strokes or quick flicks of your tongue. Stroke the shaft with your hand while you do this. As for the sucking, very easy. You may find licking your lips for lubrication helpful. Now yes you are supposed to suck but not so hard as to hurt your man, so be gental. You can tease just the head or go down the full shaft. As you are doing this again use your hands to stroke the shaft go with your up and down motions you are doing with your mouth. Once in awhile you can hold the bottom of the shaft firmly while you give a few good long stokes with your mouth. This is especially effective if your guy is not cercumsized, you hold the excess skin down. With these basics you will have a good start. Remember to keep doing different things, start slow then step it up when the guy is getting close (get him to tell you) switch what hand you are using to stroke him so your one hand doesn’t get too sore. And take you mouth off of him once in awhile and just use your hands for a minute. You don’t need to hurt yourself for it. Now for a bit more advanced. Here are some little tricks you can do. every once in awhile take your mouth off and gently blow on the penis. Slowly up the shaft, or the head, or both. Use your tongue while you are sucking up and down simply apply some pressure with it to the shaft, or stroke the head with it while you are just sucking the head Hot and cold treatments. If you have a cup of warm water or tea and cold glass of ice water. Take a sip of one (swallow) then go down on your guy, then take a sip of the other one. The contrast in you mouth temperature can be very exciting. You can also take a small ice cube place it on your tongue, hold it against his shaft as you go up and down till it is melted Testicles do not ignore them. they are very sensitive, so gentle, gentle, gentle. Some light massage with your free hand can go along way. Some extra pressure on the top of the testicles and the base of the shaft with a thum works well. Also the taint (taint your ass, taint your balls) right between his anus and sack is very sensitive, extra attention there when he is close can be that little extra he needs to cum. Most guys also like to have there balls licked or sucked. If he wants this make him shave, no one wants a bunch of hair in their mouth. This should get you started. Remember that variety is what makes the difference. And ask your partner what he likes. Oh and one more thing, a lot of guys like to grab your head and push you up and down. Or they start moving their hips. Be careful, he doesn’t know your limits and can gag you, puking on him is never attractive. If he is getting carried away make him stop. Better yet don’t let him start.

masquerade dance

well i had a blast with R this week. We seem to click so well. To bad he is so far away in the north. I barely had time to recover before going to the dance. I had so much fun at the dance. I found all the real socializing happened outside in the heated smoking area. I met a few couples who recognized me from my profile on line. Must be a good pic lol. Maybe I will here from them now. I even got a phone number and gave mine out to someone. for me the dances are all about meeting new people, not so much trying to get laid after, so I did come home alone. I was too tired to play anyways. There were some amazing outfits. some 18th century and some sexy little things. was a real come as you want/dare thing. I loved it and as usual felt totally at home with the swinger crowd. they are just so open to meeting new people and friendly. These are the kind of weeks when I love my life and my life style.

another 4 way

So I have had a busy week. R from the north finally came and met me after a few months of talking on the phone. It was instant attraction, we started making out as soon as I let him in the door! We went for dinner then he took me to a hotel room. For a first time it was pretty good. he even picked me up so I was straddling him and took me to the bed, soo turned me on. We both got invited to some group fun but R had to go to a work meeting. So I went alone to A&T's place. They had a friend there I hadn't met yet, his name starts with R as well. we all chatted for an hour or so, then went to the bedroom. Unfortunately A is not as much into other girls so I just got to play with the guys. we just paired off for play then the guys switched off. was kinda quick all in all. I was glad because I was so very tired from the night before with R. (plus I helped a friend move the day before) R is coming back today for one more night before he has to go back home to the north. then this weekend I am going to a swinger masquerade dance. I am soo excited about it. got a sexy outfit picked out and everything. This week is yet another example of how my sex life is either feast or famine. lol

4 way

So I got to have a 4 way last night. I was just looking for a booty call from W of my couple W & G. but G decided she wanted a 4 way and got a hold of D (the guy i have had a few dates with now) and planed for us all to get together. It was fun, we had wine and chatted for awhile then we went to the bedroom and had some fun. I haven't gotten to play with G since the Halloween party so it was nice to have boobs to play with again! LOL my friends said I came back glowing hehehehe these are the days I love being a swinger! I think that was my 4th date with D as well. on Monday we have our 5th date we are going shopping for masks for a masquerade ball on Feb 4th. I can't wait! He seems to want to actually stick around.Not sure if i am falling for him, but he is a nice guy who treats we well. I need that right now. he is easy to be with. I will have to see what happens.

sex tip # 13

Both girls and guys taste better when they eat and drink a lot of fruit especially pineapple.

crowded

Things have been a bit slow lately. I have house guests this month so i have no privacy. I am finding i don't like it when people know just how much i am dating, how many and how often i get laid...very odd considering i write this blog all about just those things. these people i know in person though so it is different somehow and on here i can explain each person i meet and how things happen and how i feel about it. They just see how many guys i am talking to. there are always a few guys i am talking to that i haven't met yet. It may seem like a lot, but i only count the ones i have met and slept with. at the moment i am talking to C and R who both live a ways away and are hard to meet.then there are first dates, had 2 or 3 of those lately. Also my couples for my regular sex. and D who i am now seeing ongoing. Seems like a lot but it's not really. i haven't had any sex in 2 weeks. To make things more awkward. one of the house guests in sleeping in my bed with me but we are not having sex. he has been very sick pretty much since he got here.We fooled around a bit the first night but that was all no sex for me. so now he is my cuddle buddy LOL. oh and he is 20 years old. I'm still kinda hoping i get to play with him when he is healthier. good looking guy and he is a bit of a player. I think that's why i like him he understands where i am coming from, but won't fall for me. He is WAY to young for me to fall for but may be fun to play with hehe. So anyways i can't wait for the end of the month when they all get there own place. 4 people in a one bedroom apartment is too much.

What to do if you are having trouble “keeping it up”

What to do if you are having trouble “keeping it up” First off I have to say that Viagra and other such pills work very well, but are expensive. If you do buy some Viagra, get the largest dose and break it in half or quarters. Each pill costs the same no matter to dose. If you would rather do without or just have a small problem. I can give you a few pointers. First I have to change the way some of you guys think. Most guys seem to think that if they do not have a hard on they can’t play at all, leaving the girl frustrated. Adding more and more pressure for the guy to perform. We all know that pressure is not good for getting a hard on. I want you to think of your penis and the least important thing in the bed room. Now hear me out before you disagree. You have a lot more to offer a girl then your favorite body part. You have your lips, tongue, and fingers. Plus don’t forget any toys you may have on hand. If you are slow starter. Do for her first. All the kissing and touching and making her cum is sure to get you going. Once you are hard go for it. Now some guys will get hard for a few minutes of intercourse then get soft again, and can’t continue. They get frustrated and stop. Don’t stop entirely. Go back to her making her happy and making her cum. Generally you will get hard again..’ Now for you girls out there. You have to help him out too. If you know your man well you know what he likes, what turns him on. Talking dirty, spankings, whatever. You have to make an effort too. All too often girls get lazy and don’t do all those little extra things. And of course a good BJ can go a long way in getting him hard. Remember guys it does happen and sometimes you will not be able to get hard at all, for whatever reason (stress ect.) but that does not mean you can not play with your partner. Sometimes it is just nice to make them happy. You do not have to cum every time you have sex. And if you keep her happy. There is no pressure on you, plus it just keeps the relationship going smoother.

next!

so it's didn't work out with the BDSM guy. i didn't like the drink him and he drinks all the time.plus more and more truths were coming out as he got drunker. the big top 3 being that he is an ornery drunk, did jail time for murder, and he can't rough it camping....self proclaimed princess who needs a toilet and a shower to be happy. So i won't be seeing him again. by the way he also dropped the love word and asked me to move in with him on the first date. waaay to fast for me!! the next guy I met seems so normal compared to the BDSM guy. I like him, my friends like him. so far so good for D. other then that not much happening.

sex tip #23 - kegals

Girls do your kegal exercises, guys love it when you squeeze them, especially just as they are cumming. don't know how? just squeeze like you have to pee. try squeezing and unsqueezing, fast or slow

new BDSM relationship

so a guy has asked me to be his mistress. I am not too sure about my ability to be a dom. I have dominated guys in the past but nothing like a real sub dom relationship Like E wants. so i have been reading up on it. he arrives tomorrow from Quebec andi should meet him shortly after that to see if i am into him and him to me. He is pretty sure he will be into me. This arrangement is definitely going to push some of my boundaries and hopefully his as well. I did want to push boundaries So i suppose i got my wish. lol

sex tip #21 perfumes

When getting dressed up and you know you are going to have sex that night don’t spray perfume or callone where someone might put there mouth. Yuk. Instead you can spray arm pits, hair and cloths. Same goes for body lotion…plan ahead and lotion up the day before.

Tips on how to get more oral sex and sex

Tips on how to get more oral sex and sex The most important thing for any one is to keep it clean. If you know you are going to have sex, go to the washroom and clean up a bit first. No one like the taste of urine. Remember guys you do not wipe after peeing, and there is always a dribble or two after. Go down on her. If you give you will receive. If you make her have a few orgasms with your mouth and fingers first most girls are more then happy to reciprocate. However if you are giving way more then receiving, maybe you both need to talk about it. Study’s show that the number one thing a guy can do to get more sex is help with the cleaning and other house work and/or help with the kids. Stands to reason that you would get more oral as well. When a girl isn’t so tired she is more willing to play. To improve the taste of your sperm drink plenty of fruit juice and eat lots of fruit. Pineapple is especially effective. Cut down a bit on the garlic and hot spices, that can give it a bitter taste. Manscaping, you have to trim up the hairs a bit at least. Or shave it all. If you ever want a girl to lick or suck on your balls you HAVE to shave them. No one likes to lick hair. Just as you guys like a girl to be shaved us girls like the guys to be shaved. Some girls just have issues about going down. You both need to sit down and talk about it. Find out exactly why she doesn’t want to. Once you know what’s going on you can problem solve together. Romancing your girl, even if you have been together for years, you still have to sweep her off her feet once in awhile. A surprise date night, gift or flowers are all good ways to make her happy and when she is happy you are more likely to get oral. Help her feel sexy, take her to the sex store and pick out a sexy outfit, together, for her to wear. Corsets are always a good buy. Get yourself something sexy too. Too often it is always the girl dressing up and the guy never does. Well we do like a sexy underwear once in awhile at least.

going to the Vancouver sex show

I get to go to the Vancouver taboo sex show. lots of venders and shows to watch!, I can't wait! It's from 19th -22nd this month. I'll write about my whole experience when I get back. SO a sub found me on line and wants me to be his mistress. i am not to sure about it as i am usually the sub, but it could be an interesting experience for me as well. I will be able to grow a bit in my sexual knowledge. in preparation i am reading a book on bondage and the relationship of the sub and dom. very interesting. It's called Erotic Bondage Handbook by Jay Wiseman. he also wrote SM:101 a realistic introduction. Look him up if you are interested. at the same time D and I have a 4th date planed for Sunday. I don't get many 4th dates so I am just excited to have one. this guy might actually be serous about dating. I'm not so sure I am into him as much as I would like to be though. Would I be settling with him just to say I have a bf? plus all the first dates I've been having lately. with all this happening I met a young guy I like, kinda out of the blue. Didn't meet him online, a friend introduced us. But he is very very young 20 to my 36. I am thinking he might be the FWB I have been looking for. I will have to talk to him when he wakes up to see exactly what we are doing. so far the whole swinger thing doesn't faze him.

sex advice tip od the day # 8

For both genders oral sex is earned not a right or to be demanded

todays sex advice tip

To let your partner know when they are doing something right moan louder when they hit the right spot. Guaranteed they will keep going back to that if they get a good response every time.

new years up date

my new years resolution is to push some boundaries and to keep dating till i find the right one, also i am going to start putting up my sex advice articles on here see what people think. Oh and writing more articles.

i am still trying to keep up the dating pace at a few 1st dates a week. mostly i am getting stood up, but there are a few promising guys. R Loves camping in the summer. D I've seen 3 times now he has the magic hands and is super nice.

new years up dte

G-spot

just for something a bit differant

G-Spot

Some think there is no G-spot. Other instinctively know where it is and how to use it. It is one of the most important erogenous zones on the female body. It is important for women to know where it is and be able to instruct their partners and for men to know.

First I will start by reminding all men that they should make sure their partner has at least on orgasm before you attempt intercourse. Always start slowly make sure she is good and wet. Insert one finger first then two if she is laying on her back your palm should face up to the ceiling. Curl your fingers so you are rubbing just behind her pelvic bone, she will be able to tell you when you hit the right spot. Unless she is very sensitive being to gentle wont work well. Put some pressure on it, you can either rub it up and down, curl and uncurl your fingers, tapping the g-spot or keep your fingers curled while you move your fingers in and out of her. This makes your fingers hit her g-spot every time you pull in and out some girls might like you to go faster and harder as she gets closer.

Now the side effect of this type of orgasm before intercourse is that now that they have had it whatever the guy does after that feels even better because we are now all sensitive and tingling. Plus, one more thing that some people do not know. With a g-spot orgasm women quite often leave quite a mess! It is called female ejaculation and there is a lot of it. Some people mistakenly think they have peed during orgasm, but that is not true and it is nothing to be embarrassed about. If this is the case put some towels down before you start to play. Another option is getting the deposable pads they use for people who may pee the bed, they are easy and can just be tossed out after.

So you see it is easier then you thought. I have given you the basics. Don’t forget the extras, use your imaginations. I can not stress enough how important for-play is.