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Thursday, February 9, 2012
The art if giving face
The art if giving face
I will start by saying that girls can be harder to please. They are harder to turn on and it can take longer for them to cum. Communication is key. If she is comfortable talking to you about what she likes and wants the experience is better for both of you.
Girls NEED foreplay!! I can’t stress that enough. Don’t just go straight for the vagina. I will cover foreplay in another article. So for now we will assume you have already worked on her and gotten her all hot and bothered.
Lets start with basic anatomy.
the mound, the area where a women’s triangle of pubic hairs are.
The outer labia, the plump outer lips of the vagina
Inner labia the pink inner lips
Clit, located near the top of the vagina, protrudes into a nub when a girl is aroused
Vagina the part the men are always trying to get in lol
1.Start slow, with stimulating the mound and outer labia, with gentle strokes of your fingers or even slightly firm pressure with your palm. The more you tease her the more sensitive she will be when you finally touch her. Some girls like gentle and some like things a bit more rough. Always start with gentle and apply more pressure on her request only. Too many guys are too rough with there hands.
So we all know that you need to lick her, but how?
2.Light little flicks with the tip of your tongue
Slow long strokes from bottom to top
Then the basic steady lick, like a cat lapping milk.
sucking on the clit
sticking your tongue in the vagina
rimming
start with 2 to tease her 1 to get her going. Use a variety of all of them (only rim her if you have permission) but when she is getting close use 3 find the spot where you are licking her clit and almost the vag area. Allow her to shift, if she moves her hip higher or lower do not move with her, she is trying to find the sweet spot. When she is getting closer apply more pressure with your tongue and speed up. If you insert a finger in her vag and move it slowly in and out this can help her cum, or find the g-spot, but only gently stimulate it.
Trouble shooting
If she tells you she is close but just can’t cum for some reason
- she is over stimulated, slow everything down go back to 2 and a bit of 1 but very, very gentle. Take your time, very slowly add more pressure and faster switch to 3. repeat as necessary. Inserting a finger in her vag can also set her off if she is close
if she is always saying ouch, for sex’s sake be gentle!!!
-Maybe start using lotion on your hands to soften them (make sure you do not have any on your hands when you start to play with her) always wash your hands, salts and other things you have touched that day can cause burning. If you have hair stubble, go shave! It feels like sand paper to us. Do not push your face into us so hard.
Your jaw is sore
go back and forth using your fingers to stimulate her clit, make sure she is well lubricated quick circular movements or side to side work best
Common mistakes
being too rough
not starting slowly
biting the clit (careful if you are sucking on it)
giving to much stimulation internally with fingers. If the internal is more intense then the clitoral stimulation she will have a hard time having a clitoral orgasm
moving away from her sweet spot when she is close. If she tells you she is close keep doing what you are doing, no not stop or change in any way.
Stopping as soon as she cums. Unlike guys us girls need you to keep going until we push you away. If you stop our climax stops.
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