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Friday, January 22, 2010
second date
So i actually managed to get a second date last night. went to the strip club very early had a bite to eat and time to talk before the dancers came on and the music started. he seems to be a real nice guy. shy, but i like that. when we got back to my place he just wouldn't make the first move till i said "you prety shy aren't you" LOL shy guys are so cute.
he was very gental, which is nice but after a while it was too gental. and he didn't seem to have the strength in his legs to do much, no matter what postion we tried. but aparently it's been like 4 years since he's had sex or even dated so i think i'll cut him a brake. the first time with someone is never as good as like the 10th time anyways. that why one night stands are mostly dissapointing. well there are always a few good ones.
i remember one young guy i picked up at the bar one night when i was a bit minic and horny. he just kept going and going, my roomates later told me it was 2 and a half hours! the one thing the young guys are good for LOL
anyways back to the date.
i think i will deffinatly see him again, so i guess he needs a nick name now, i think the tow truck driver works.
so i am really hoping this goes somewhere, but it's still too early to tell.
he was very gental, which is nice but after a while it was too gental. and he didn't seem to have the strength in his legs to do much, no matter what postion we tried. but aparently it's been like 4 years since he's had sex or even dated so i think i'll cut him a brake. the first time with someone is never as good as like the 10th time anyways. that why one night stands are mostly dissapointing. well there are always a few good ones.
i remember one young guy i picked up at the bar one night when i was a bit minic and horny. he just kept going and going, my roomates later told me it was 2 and a half hours! the one thing the young guys are good for LOL
anyways back to the date.
i think i will deffinatly see him again, so i guess he needs a nick name now, i think the tow truck driver works.
so i am really hoping this goes somewhere, but it's still too early to tell.
Sunday, January 17, 2010
new date
so i had another first date last night. I think it went well, he seems nice and charming. and was respectfull, i even had to make the first move for a kiss good night lol
he drives a tow truck so he's not rich but is getting by comfortably.
i hope to see him again, will have to see next time he is on line.
the unfortunate thing was that after dinner i was soo tired all of a sudden, he wanted to go to the strip club, and so did I but i was so tired i just asked him to take me home. i hope he didn't think i was just saying that to cut the night short.
on a odder note a guy from one of the sites felt the need to write and tell me i am easy and a comunity whore! don't worry i told him off rather well. but it was a good reminder of what most people think of me and swingers and the whole lifestyle. outsite of the swinger comunity i am looked at as a slut...inside i am treated with respect.. funny how a persons perspective can change how they view others.
no i have know girls who would go out to the bar every weekend and sleep with someone new...nothing but one night stands.
wile i have had a few one night stands in my life i preffer to have someone stick arou nd and get to know them and care about them...sex is always better the longer you have been together.
yes i date mor ethen one person at a time....but hell look at al the first dates i have that go no farther, i figure i am more likely to find that one true love by going on dates and meeting lots of guys girls and couples....one at a time seems like it would take way too long LOL but it's not like i have so many boyfriends at once anyways. just my FWB and the couples
he drives a tow truck so he's not rich but is getting by comfortably.
i hope to see him again, will have to see next time he is on line.
the unfortunate thing was that after dinner i was soo tired all of a sudden, he wanted to go to the strip club, and so did I but i was so tired i just asked him to take me home. i hope he didn't think i was just saying that to cut the night short.
on a odder note a guy from one of the sites felt the need to write and tell me i am easy and a comunity whore! don't worry i told him off rather well. but it was a good reminder of what most people think of me and swingers and the whole lifestyle. outsite of the swinger comunity i am looked at as a slut...inside i am treated with respect.. funny how a persons perspective can change how they view others.
no i have know girls who would go out to the bar every weekend and sleep with someone new...nothing but one night stands.
wile i have had a few one night stands in my life i preffer to have someone stick arou nd and get to know them and care about them...sex is always better the longer you have been together.
yes i date mor ethen one person at a time....but hell look at al the first dates i have that go no farther, i figure i am more likely to find that one true love by going on dates and meeting lots of guys girls and couples....one at a time seems like it would take way too long LOL but it's not like i have so many boyfriends at once anyways. just my FWB and the couples
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