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Thursday, January 19, 2012

sex tip # 13

Both girls and guys taste better when they eat and drink a lot of fruit especially pineapple.

crowded

Things have been a bit slow lately. I have house guests this month so i have no privacy. I am finding i don't like it when people know just how much i am dating, how many and how often i get laid...very odd considering i write this blog all about just those things. these people i know in person though so it is different somehow and on here i can explain each person i meet and how things happen and how i feel about it. They just see how many guys i am talking to. there are always a few guys i am talking to that i haven't met yet. It may seem like a lot, but i only count the ones i have met and slept with. at the moment i am talking to C and R who both live a ways away and are hard to meet.then there are first dates, had 2 or 3 of those lately. Also my couples for my regular sex. and D who i am now seeing ongoing. Seems like a lot but it's not really. i haven't had any sex in 2 weeks. To make things more awkward. one of the house guests in sleeping in my bed with me but we are not having sex. he has been very sick pretty much since he got here.We fooled around a bit the first night but that was all no sex for me. so now he is my cuddle buddy LOL. oh and he is 20 years old. I'm still kinda hoping i get to play with him when he is healthier. good looking guy and he is a bit of a player. I think that's why i like him he understands where i am coming from, but won't fall for me. He is WAY to young for me to fall for but may be fun to play with hehe. So anyways i can't wait for the end of the month when they all get there own place. 4 people in a one bedroom apartment is too much.

Sunday, January 15, 2012

What to do if you are having trouble “keeping it up”

What to do if you are having trouble “keeping it up” First off I have to say that Viagra and other such pills work very well, but are expensive. If you do buy some Viagra, get the largest dose and break it in half or quarters. Each pill costs the same no matter to dose. If you would rather do without or just have a small problem. I can give you a few pointers. First I have to change the way some of you guys think. Most guys seem to think that if they do not have a hard on they can’t play at all, leaving the girl frustrated. Adding more and more pressure for the guy to perform. We all know that pressure is not good for getting a hard on. I want you to think of your penis and the least important thing in the bed room. Now hear me out before you disagree. You have a lot more to offer a girl then your favorite body part. You have your lips, tongue, and fingers. Plus don’t forget any toys you may have on hand. If you are slow starter. Do for her first. All the kissing and touching and making her cum is sure to get you going. Once you are hard go for it. Now some guys will get hard for a few minutes of intercourse then get soft again, and can’t continue. They get frustrated and stop. Don’t stop entirely. Go back to her making her happy and making her cum. Generally you will get hard again..’ Now for you girls out there. You have to help him out too. If you know your man well you know what he likes, what turns him on. Talking dirty, spankings, whatever. You have to make an effort too. All too often girls get lazy and don’t do all those little extra things. And of course a good BJ can go a long way in getting him hard. Remember guys it does happen and sometimes you will not be able to get hard at all, for whatever reason (stress ect.) but that does not mean you can not play with your partner. Sometimes it is just nice to make them happy. You do not have to cum every time you have sex. And if you keep her happy. There is no pressure on you, plus it just keeps the relationship going smoother.

next!

so it's didn't work out with the BDSM guy. i didn't like the drink him and he drinks all the time.plus more and more truths were coming out as he got drunker. the big top 3 being that he is an ornery drunk, did jail time for murder, and he can't rough it camping....self proclaimed princess who needs a toilet and a shower to be happy. So i won't be seeing him again. by the way he also dropped the love word and asked me to move in with him on the first date. waaay to fast for me!! the next guy I met seems so normal compared to the BDSM guy. I like him, my friends like him. so far so good for D. other then that not much happening.