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Sunday, January 15, 2012
What to do if you are having trouble “keeping it up”
What to do if you are having trouble “keeping it up”
First off I have to say that Viagra and other such pills work very well, but are expensive. If you do buy some Viagra, get the largest dose and break it in half or quarters. Each pill costs the same no matter to dose. If you would rather do without or just have a small problem. I can give you a few pointers.
First I have to change the way some of you guys think. Most guys seem to think that if they do not have a hard on they can’t play at all, leaving the girl frustrated. Adding more and more pressure for the guy to perform. We all know that pressure is not good for getting a hard on.
I want you to think of your penis and the least important thing in the bed room. Now hear me out before you disagree. You have a lot more to offer a girl then your favorite body part. You have your lips, tongue, and fingers. Plus don’t forget any toys you may have on hand.
If you are slow starter. Do for her first. All the kissing and touching and making her cum is sure to get you going. Once you are hard go for it. Now some guys will get hard for a few minutes of intercourse then get soft again, and can’t continue. They get frustrated and stop. Don’t stop entirely. Go back to her making her happy and making her cum. Generally you will get hard again..’
Now for you girls out there. You have to help him out too. If you know your man well you know what he likes, what turns him on. Talking dirty, spankings, whatever. You have to make an effort too. All too often girls get lazy and don’t do all those little extra things. And of course a good BJ can go a long way in getting him hard.
Remember guys it does happen and sometimes you will not be able to get hard at all, for whatever reason (stress ect.) but that does not mean you can not play with your partner. Sometimes it is just nice to make them happy. You do not have to cum every time you have sex. And if you keep her happy. There is no pressure on you, plus it just keeps the relationship going smoother.
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