it's not as easy as it looks to find someone on these web sites. i can get say 10 e-mails a week (thats being generus lol) lets say half of them get my interest, i write back and ask them what kind of relationship they are looking for and ask what they do for fun.. i figure it gives me a general idea of them. based on there answeres i might give one of them my msn address, some people end up on my msn for months without them ever having time to see me, i just give up on them after awile.. i few i get to meet, for a first date meet and greet, some disapear after that 9not interested i guess) and some i am not interested in seeing again...once in awile i see them a second time and even more rarely i see them a third time... so i am basickly still single and looking.. i am finding that the couples are sooo much more reliable then the single guys... single guys stand me up alot, they make a date i go, and wait for like half an hour and no show (i only wait half an hour) very frustrating. I have yet to meet a single bi girl.. us bi girls seem to all be taken lol.
today i had an e-mail from i guy who was all excited becouse he has the same dream vacation as i do (hedonisim resort) just to bad he lives a few towns away... traveling to see him would be difficult.
then there is the much much older guy who lives in baleze.. is in Canada for a visit then going back..I've been e-mailing back and forth the last couple days.. i have to ask myself though. am I more interested in him just becouse he lives in Baleze and i am hoping at some point to get to go? is that gold digging in a way? would i even have writen back if he was living somewhere else/ and really what kind of long distance relationship can i have with a guy who lives in a differant country?
things to ponder anyways
Saturday, October 17, 2009
Friday, October 16, 2009
intro
OK so I've never done blogging before, very new to this but i thought it would be fun.
i write how i talk, so don't expect perfect spelling or grammar.
so about me and what i am trying to do
i am using 2 websites to try and find the right person and possibly fall in love.
the twist is that I an bi-sexual and will never give up one sex for the other, so it follows that I am into threesomes and moresomes. i consider myself polyamourus or a swinger.
i believe that monogamous relationships don't work out well, for me anyways.
i don't think that any one person can meet all of another persons needs. That is why people cheat, they get something out of it that their partner is not providing. even if it's just the excitement of someone new. if a person cheats, there is lying and secrecy... this is the worst thing for a relationship, because they are based on mutual trust, once that is gone u have nothing.
in a poly or open relationship, there is honesty. i tell people up front i don't do monogamy and that i am a swinger. i am even open about it to my friends, which is rare.. most swingers are quit about it and don't want their friends, or neighbors to know they are swingers. but they are everywhere. even in the small towns around the small town i live in.
so for this blog i will use nick names for the people i play with or date, and not tell anyone where in Canada i live except that it's a small town.
so I've lived in this small town for almost a year now, i moved here from a big city.. easier way of life here, and cheaper then living int he city. I've met a lot of people on the web site so far, lots of first dates, less second dates ect. still looking for the right person to come along.
but i have met some very nice couples as well. the oldest couple i play with are over 50, I'll call them "the old bikers" he's got a nice motorbike. I've only seen them a couple times so far, but they are a lot of fun, she cums so quickly (like 2 minutes) and can do that all night! and he is good at getting me to that state, where I've cum so many times that he can just make me cum in no time at all. great fun and proves that age has nothing to do with it.
the second couple i play with are a bit younger, in their 40's, i will call them GL, they are very very into oral, mostly giving him head. come into town and get a hotel room for us to play and always take me for dinner first, they are really good people.
for the 3rd couple, well i haven't met her yet, she has an injury she is recovering from so I've only met him so far, they have swinger parties at their house i haven't been to one yet but am looking forward to the one in November. lets call them "the swingers" i can't wait to meet her but he is fun, the first day i met him he dared me to skip the meet and greet coffee thing and just be naked when i answered the door. i was really horny that day so i took his dare, and even let him tie me up and blindfold me when he got here.
there is another couple i have met but have not yet played with so they don't get a nick name yet 9 don't know what to call them yet lol)
now don't miss understand i don't get to see them all the time, generally about once a month for GL and even less for the old bikers. seen the male half of the swingers a few times in the last 2 months but still haven't met her...most people who swing don't do it ALL the time, the couples get busy with work and there own lives then when they have some time they get a hold of me and we plan a play date.
there is a guy i am seeing, calling it friends with benefits. we get along good and he is always over, unfortunately he has MS. He gets around with a walker, so when we have sex i pretty much have to be on top (good work out for my legs lol) I like him a lot but just don't see a future with him, I'm just not falling in love with him. I'll call him my FWB (friend with benefits) the good thing about him is he can't work (on disability) he has LOTS of time for me and i like hanging out with him, but he has a lower sex drive, so we don't have sex as often as i would like. we cuddle and watch movies a lot though.
so i am still on a search for someone i can fall in love with and share my swinger life style with. either a bi girl or buy. i don't date lesbians anymore... they wouldn't be into a threesome with a guy...
so this blog is about that search, and all the fun and playing i get to do along the way. I'll keep you posted on dates and play dates as best i can.
so till next time
--wildflower @-->--
i write how i talk, so don't expect perfect spelling or grammar.
so about me and what i am trying to do
i am using 2 websites to try and find the right person and possibly fall in love.
the twist is that I an bi-sexual and will never give up one sex for the other, so it follows that I am into threesomes and moresomes. i consider myself polyamourus or a swinger.
i believe that monogamous relationships don't work out well, for me anyways.
i don't think that any one person can meet all of another persons needs. That is why people cheat, they get something out of it that their partner is not providing. even if it's just the excitement of someone new. if a person cheats, there is lying and secrecy... this is the worst thing for a relationship, because they are based on mutual trust, once that is gone u have nothing.
in a poly or open relationship, there is honesty. i tell people up front i don't do monogamy and that i am a swinger. i am even open about it to my friends, which is rare.. most swingers are quit about it and don't want their friends, or neighbors to know they are swingers. but they are everywhere. even in the small towns around the small town i live in.
so for this blog i will use nick names for the people i play with or date, and not tell anyone where in Canada i live except that it's a small town.
so I've lived in this small town for almost a year now, i moved here from a big city.. easier way of life here, and cheaper then living int he city. I've met a lot of people on the web site so far, lots of first dates, less second dates ect. still looking for the right person to come along.
but i have met some very nice couples as well. the oldest couple i play with are over 50, I'll call them "the old bikers" he's got a nice motorbike. I've only seen them a couple times so far, but they are a lot of fun, she cums so quickly (like 2 minutes) and can do that all night! and he is good at getting me to that state, where I've cum so many times that he can just make me cum in no time at all. great fun and proves that age has nothing to do with it.
the second couple i play with are a bit younger, in their 40's, i will call them GL, they are very very into oral, mostly giving him head. come into town and get a hotel room for us to play and always take me for dinner first, they are really good people.
for the 3rd couple, well i haven't met her yet, she has an injury she is recovering from so I've only met him so far, they have swinger parties at their house i haven't been to one yet but am looking forward to the one in November. lets call them "the swingers" i can't wait to meet her but he is fun, the first day i met him he dared me to skip the meet and greet coffee thing and just be naked when i answered the door. i was really horny that day so i took his dare, and even let him tie me up and blindfold me when he got here.
there is another couple i have met but have not yet played with so they don't get a nick name yet 9 don't know what to call them yet lol)
now don't miss understand i don't get to see them all the time, generally about once a month for GL and even less for the old bikers. seen the male half of the swingers a few times in the last 2 months but still haven't met her...most people who swing don't do it ALL the time, the couples get busy with work and there own lives then when they have some time they get a hold of me and we plan a play date.
there is a guy i am seeing, calling it friends with benefits. we get along good and he is always over, unfortunately he has MS. He gets around with a walker, so when we have sex i pretty much have to be on top (good work out for my legs lol) I like him a lot but just don't see a future with him, I'm just not falling in love with him. I'll call him my FWB (friend with benefits) the good thing about him is he can't work (on disability) he has LOTS of time for me and i like hanging out with him, but he has a lower sex drive, so we don't have sex as often as i would like. we cuddle and watch movies a lot though.
so i am still on a search for someone i can fall in love with and share my swinger life style with. either a bi girl or buy. i don't date lesbians anymore... they wouldn't be into a threesome with a guy...
so this blog is about that search, and all the fun and playing i get to do along the way. I'll keep you posted on dates and play dates as best i can.
so till next time
--wildflower @-->--
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