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Saturday, January 7, 2012
Tips on how to get more oral sex and sex
Tips on how to get more oral sex and sex
The most important thing for any one is to keep it clean. If you know you are going to have sex, go to the washroom and clean up a bit first. No one like the taste of urine. Remember guys you do not wipe after peeing, and there is always a dribble or two after.
Go down on her. If you give you will receive. If you make her have a few orgasms with your mouth and fingers first most girls are more then happy to reciprocate. However if you are giving way more then receiving, maybe you both need to talk about it.
Study’s show that the number one thing a guy can do to get more sex is help with the cleaning and other house work and/or help with the kids. Stands to reason that you would get more oral as well. When a girl isn’t so tired she is more willing to play.
To improve the taste of your sperm drink plenty of fruit juice and eat lots of fruit. Pineapple is especially effective. Cut down a bit on the garlic and hot spices, that can give it a bitter taste.
Manscaping, you have to trim up the hairs a bit at least. Or shave it all. If you ever want a girl to lick or suck on your balls you HAVE to shave them. No one likes to lick hair. Just as you guys like a girl to be shaved us girls like the guys to be shaved.
Some girls just have issues about going down. You both need to sit down and talk about it. Find out exactly why she doesn’t want to. Once you know what’s going on you can problem solve together.
Romancing your girl, even if you have been together for years, you still have to sweep her off her feet once in awhile. A surprise date night, gift or flowers are all good ways to make her happy and when she is happy you are more likely to get oral.
Help her feel sexy, take her to the sex store and pick out a sexy outfit, together, for her to wear. Corsets are always a good buy. Get yourself something sexy too. Too often it is always the girl dressing up and the guy never does. Well we do like a sexy underwear once in awhile at least.
going to the Vancouver sex show
I get to go to the Vancouver taboo sex show. lots of venders and shows to watch!, I can't wait! It's from 19th -22nd this month. I'll write about my whole experience when I get back.
SO a sub found me on line and wants me to be his mistress. i am not to sure about it as i am usually the sub, but it could be an interesting experience for me as well. I will be able to grow a bit in my sexual knowledge. in preparation i am reading a book on bondage and the relationship of the sub and dom. very interesting. It's called Erotic Bondage Handbook by Jay Wiseman. he also wrote SM:101 a realistic introduction.
Look him up if you are interested.
at the same time D and I have a 4th date planed for Sunday. I don't get many 4th dates so I am just excited to have one. this guy might actually be serous about dating. I'm not so sure I am into him as much as I would like to be though. Would I be settling with him just to say I have a bf?
plus all the first dates I've been having lately.
with all this happening I met a young guy I like, kinda out of the blue. Didn't meet him online, a friend introduced us. But he is very very young 20 to my 36. I am thinking he might be the FWB I have been looking for. I will have to talk to him when he wakes up to see exactly what we are doing. so far the whole swinger thing doesn't faze him.
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
todays sex advice tip
To let your partner know when they are doing something right moan louder when they hit the right spot. Guaranteed they will keep going back to that if they get a good response every time.
Tuesday, January 3, 2012
new years up date
my new years resolution is to push some boundaries and to keep dating till i find the right one, also i am going to start putting up my sex advice articles on here see what people think. Oh and writing more articles.
i am still trying to keep up the dating pace at a few 1st dates a week. mostly i am getting stood up, but there are a few promising guys. R Loves camping in the summer. D I've seen 3 times now he has the magic hands and is super nice.
i am still trying to keep up the dating pace at a few 1st dates a week. mostly i am getting stood up, but there are a few promising guys. R Loves camping in the summer. D I've seen 3 times now he has the magic hands and is super nice.
G-spot
just for something a bit differant
G-Spot
Some think there is no G-spot. Other instinctively know where it is and how to use it. It is one of the most important erogenous zones on the female body. It is important for women to know where it is and be able to instruct their partners and for men to know.
First I will start by reminding all men that they should make sure their partner has at least on orgasm before you attempt intercourse. Always start slowly make sure she is good and wet. Insert one finger first then two if she is laying on her back your palm should face up to the ceiling. Curl your fingers so you are rubbing just behind her pelvic bone, she will be able to tell you when you hit the right spot. Unless she is very sensitive being to gentle wont work well. Put some pressure on it, you can either rub it up and down, curl and uncurl your fingers, tapping the g-spot or keep your fingers curled while you move your fingers in and out of her. This makes your fingers hit her g-spot every time you pull in and out some girls might like you to go faster and harder as she gets closer.
Now the side effect of this type of orgasm before intercourse is that now that they have had it whatever the guy does after that feels even better because we are now all sensitive and tingling. Plus, one more thing that some people do not know. With a g-spot orgasm women quite often leave quite a mess! It is called female ejaculation and there is a lot of it. Some people mistakenly think they have peed during orgasm, but that is not true and it is nothing to be embarrassed about. If this is the case put some towels down before you start to play. Another option is getting the deposable pads they use for people who may pee the bed, they are easy and can just be tossed out after.
So you see it is easier then you thought. I have given you the basics. Don’t forget the extras, use your imaginations. I can not stress enough how important for-play is.
G-Spot
Some think there is no G-spot. Other instinctively know where it is and how to use it. It is one of the most important erogenous zones on the female body. It is important for women to know where it is and be able to instruct their partners and for men to know.
First I will start by reminding all men that they should make sure their partner has at least on orgasm before you attempt intercourse. Always start slowly make sure she is good and wet. Insert one finger first then two if she is laying on her back your palm should face up to the ceiling. Curl your fingers so you are rubbing just behind her pelvic bone, she will be able to tell you when you hit the right spot. Unless she is very sensitive being to gentle wont work well. Put some pressure on it, you can either rub it up and down, curl and uncurl your fingers, tapping the g-spot or keep your fingers curled while you move your fingers in and out of her. This makes your fingers hit her g-spot every time you pull in and out some girls might like you to go faster and harder as she gets closer.
Now the side effect of this type of orgasm before intercourse is that now that they have had it whatever the guy does after that feels even better because we are now all sensitive and tingling. Plus, one more thing that some people do not know. With a g-spot orgasm women quite often leave quite a mess! It is called female ejaculation and there is a lot of it. Some people mistakenly think they have peed during orgasm, but that is not true and it is nothing to be embarrassed about. If this is the case put some towels down before you start to play. Another option is getting the deposable pads they use for people who may pee the bed, they are easy and can just be tossed out after.
So you see it is easier then you thought. I have given you the basics. Don’t forget the extras, use your imaginations. I can not stress enough how important for-play is.
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