So while C continues to call me every couple of days and we have good talks. he has yet to come here because he is about 2 hours away and he works and is busy alot. I am still hoping to get to meet him.
On Tuesday I got an e-mail from another guy MV. I put him on my hotmail and we started chatting right away then we talked on the phone. Like C he is good with the idea of living on a small farm. he doesn't have it right now, but is willing and has, in the past, run a major horse farm with pure breeds.
And people said trying to find a guy who want a farm and a swinger life style was hard. LOL
Finding them is not so hard it's trying to find the right one that's a keeper that's hard. I will admit that it is still a waay smaller pond I am fishing in, but not impossible.
MV also lives about 2 hours away, but in the other direction. However came to see me for our first date last night. I like a man of action. he works in the wine industry. Takes a wine bottler on a semi to vineyards to bottle their wine. So this is his slow time of the year. meaning he has time. Time is a good thing in my books. So we went for dinner, I let him pick the wine because he knows his wines. We hit it off right away. talking came easy. he's really into traveling in the winters. he likes Thailand. He also goes to California every year for a wine convention. So if we do get together I'm going to get to do alot of traveling.
We defiantly had sexual attraction as well.It took will power to not have sex with him on the first date. he wanted to come back for a second date today. I told him Friday would be better. (Tomorrow) he wants to take me to his place soon to meet his animals (dog, cat)and his friends, who kept texting him last night to ask how the date was going. After dinner we went to the beach, smoked some weed and talked for a couple of hours. Then we went to the strip club and watched a few dancers. Guys love it when I take them there. So i am very into him. He's not the best looking guy out there. But when we talk i laugh alot. When he kisses me, well I get all kinds of tingles. He seems very into me and I get the feeling that if we do start dating it won't be long before he will want me to move in with him. Not sure if i am ready to move quite that fast. but I am jumping the gun.
I do still like C as well, just never met him yet. I am hoping I will not have to choose between them at some point. However after 3 years of being single the odds of that are slim.
for now I am just going to go with it.
