more couples

So I met up with a couple last night that I have met before at swinger events. Apparently they were thinking of me and I just happened to come across their profile on line and e-mailed them! lol They are T&T. They invited their other playmate, a guy named A. (very good looking) we went out for drinks and munchies, then back to T&T's place for strip poker. Wasn't long before we were in the bedroom playing. I got to tick of one more to do thing of my list of things I want to do! I got to watch a guy give another guy head. It was quite a turn on! We all got along so well they want me back next Friday! I can't wait. I wasn't sure about them at first, I wasn't all that attracted to them when I met them before. Personality wins the day though. They are great people, she is so bubbly I just really enjoyed them, in and out of bed. I am more focusing on meeting couples right now, I've actually been talking to a few lately. I think it is because I have decided on R from the north and am just not trying to meet Single guys right now. I want to see how things pan out with R. plus I am just getting tired of all the first dates. Couples tend to stick around more and are more reliable. but I worry I may be talking to too many of them...how many is too many? Who knows?! It won't work out with a few anyways, right? I figure life is about enjoying it to the fullest, you never know how long you have. That's a big reason I am a swinger. Also being bi-polar makes me appreciate the times I am feeling good, so I have as much fun as I can each day and week.

The art if giving face

The art if giving face I will start by saying that girls can be harder to please. They are harder to turn on and it can take longer for them to cum. Communication is key. If she is comfortable talking to you about what she likes and wants the experience is better for both of you. Girls NEED foreplay!! I can’t stress that enough. Don’t just go straight for the vagina. I will cover foreplay in another article. So for now we will assume you have already worked on her and gotten her all hot and bothered. Lets start with basic anatomy. the mound, the area where a women’s triangle of pubic hairs are. The outer labia, the plump outer lips of the vagina Inner labia the pink inner lips Clit, located near the top of the vagina, protrudes into a nub when a girl is aroused Vagina the part the men are always trying to get in lol 1.Start slow, with stimulating the mound and outer labia, with gentle strokes of your fingers or even slightly firm pressure with your palm. The more you tease her the more sensitive she will be when you finally touch her. Some girls like gentle and some like things a bit more rough. Always start with gentle and apply more pressure on her request only. Too many guys are too rough with there hands. So we all know that you need to lick her, but how? 2.Light little flicks with the tip of your tongue Slow long strokes from bottom to top Then the basic steady lick, like a cat lapping milk. sucking on the clit sticking your tongue in the vagina rimming start with 2 to tease her 1 to get her going. Use a variety of all of them (only rim her if you have permission) but when she is getting close use 3 find the spot where you are licking her clit and almost the vag area. Allow her to shift, if she moves her hip higher or lower do not move with her, she is trying to find the sweet spot. When she is getting closer apply more pressure with your tongue and speed up. If you insert a finger in her vag and move it slowly in and out this can help her cum, or find the g-spot, but only gently stimulate it. Trouble shooting If she tells you she is close but just can’t cum for some reason - she is over stimulated, slow everything down go back to 2 and a bit of 1 but very, very gentle. Take your time, very slowly add more pressure and faster switch to 3. repeat as necessary. Inserting a finger in her vag can also set her off if she is close if she is always saying ouch, for sex’s sake be gentle!!! -Maybe start using lotion on your hands to soften them (make sure you do not have any on your hands when you start to play with her) always wash your hands, salts and other things you have touched that day can cause burning. If you have hair stubble, go shave! It feels like sand paper to us. Do not push your face into us so hard. Your jaw is sore go back and forth using your fingers to stimulate her clit, make sure she is well lubricated quick circular movements or side to side work best Common mistakes being too rough not starting slowly biting the clit (careful if you are sucking on it) giving to much stimulation internally with fingers. If the internal is more intense then the clitoral stimulation she will have a hard time having a clitoral orgasm moving away from her sweet spot when she is close. If she tells you she is close keep doing what you are doing, no not stop or change in any way. Stopping as soon as she cums. Unlike guys us girls need you to keep going until we push you away. If you stop our climax stops.

The art of giving head

The art of giving head If you are completely new to this or just would like a few pointers, everyone can learn a thing or two about mens favorite sex act. First make sure your guy actually cleans his penis before you start. You don’t want to put anything dirty in your mouth. So basics are in the licking and the sucking. Start slow you may be there awhile and you do not want your jaw getting to sore too soon. With licking you can lick up and down the shaft and around the head. Keep it varied between long slow strokes or quick flicks of your tongue. Stroke the shaft with your hand while you do this. As for the sucking, very easy. You may find licking your lips for lubrication helpful. Now yes you are supposed to suck but not so hard as to hurt your man, so be gental. You can tease just the head or go down the full shaft. As you are doing this again use your hands to stroke the shaft go with your up and down motions you are doing with your mouth. Once in awhile you can hold the bottom of the shaft firmly while you give a few good long stokes with your mouth. This is especially effective if your guy is not cercumsized, you hold the excess skin down. With these basics you will have a good start. Remember to keep doing different things, start slow then step it up when the guy is getting close (get him to tell you) switch what hand you are using to stroke him so your one hand doesn’t get too sore. And take you mouth off of him once in awhile and just use your hands for a minute. You don’t need to hurt yourself for it. Now for a bit more advanced. Here are some little tricks you can do. every once in awhile take your mouth off and gently blow on the penis. Slowly up the shaft, or the head, or both. Use your tongue while you are sucking up and down simply apply some pressure with it to the shaft, or stroke the head with it while you are just sucking the head Hot and cold treatments. If you have a cup of warm water or tea and cold glass of ice water. Take a sip of one (swallow) then go down on your guy, then take a sip of the other one. The contrast in you mouth temperature can be very exciting. You can also take a small ice cube place it on your tongue, hold it against his shaft as you go up and down till it is melted Testicles do not ignore them. they are very sensitive, so gentle, gentle, gentle. Some light massage with your free hand can go along way. Some extra pressure on the top of the testicles and the base of the shaft with a thum works well. Also the taint (taint your ass, taint your balls) right between his anus and sack is very sensitive, extra attention there when he is close can be that little extra he needs to cum. Most guys also like to have there balls licked or sucked. If he wants this make him shave, no one wants a bunch of hair in their mouth. This should get you started. Remember that variety is what makes the difference. And ask your partner what he likes. Oh and one more thing, a lot of guys like to grab your head and push you up and down. Or they start moving their hips. Be careful, he doesn’t know your limits and can gag you, puking on him is never attractive. If he is getting carried away make him stop. Better yet don’t let him start.

masquerade dance

well i had a blast with R this week. We seem to click so well. To bad he is so far away in the north. I barely had time to recover before going to the dance. I had so much fun at the dance. I found all the real socializing happened outside in the heated smoking area. I met a few couples who recognized me from my profile on line. Must be a good pic lol. Maybe I will here from them now. I even got a phone number and gave mine out to someone. for me the dances are all about meeting new people, not so much trying to get laid after, so I did come home alone. I was too tired to play anyways. There were some amazing outfits. some 18th century and some sexy little things. was a real come as you want/dare thing. I loved it and as usual felt totally at home with the swinger crowd. they are just so open to meeting new people and friendly. These are the kind of weeks when I love my life and my life style.