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Sunday, February 5, 2012
The art of giving head
The art of giving head
If you are completely new to this or just would like a few pointers, everyone can learn a thing or two about mens favorite sex act.
First make sure your guy actually cleans his penis before you start. You don’t want to put anything dirty in your mouth.
So basics are in the licking and the sucking. Start slow you may be there awhile and you do not want your jaw getting to sore too soon. With licking you can lick up and down the shaft and around the head. Keep it varied between long slow strokes or quick flicks of your tongue. Stroke the shaft with your hand while you do this. As for the sucking, very easy. You may find licking your lips for lubrication helpful. Now yes you are supposed to suck but not so hard as to hurt your man, so be gental. You can tease just the head or go down the full shaft. As you are doing this again use your hands to stroke the shaft go with your up and down motions you are doing with your mouth. Once in awhile you can hold the bottom of the shaft firmly while you give a few good long stokes with your mouth. This is especially effective if your guy is not cercumsized, you hold the excess skin down. With these basics you will have a good start. Remember to keep doing different things, start slow then step it up when the guy is getting close (get him to tell you) switch what hand you are using to stroke him so your one hand doesn’t get too sore. And take you mouth off of him once in awhile and just use your hands for a minute. You don’t need to hurt yourself for it.
Now for a bit more advanced. Here are some little tricks you can do.
every once in awhile take your mouth off and gently blow on the penis. Slowly up the shaft, or the head, or both.
Use your tongue while you are sucking up and down simply apply some pressure with it to the shaft, or stroke the head with it while you are just sucking the head
Hot and cold treatments. If you have a cup of warm water or tea and cold glass of ice water. Take a sip of one (swallow) then go down on your guy, then take a sip of the other one. The contrast in you mouth temperature can be very exciting. You can also take a small ice cube place it on your tongue, hold it against his shaft as you go up and down till it is melted
Testicles do not ignore them. they are very sensitive, so gentle, gentle, gentle. Some light massage with your free hand can go along way. Some extra pressure on the top of the testicles and the base of the shaft with a thum works well. Also the taint (taint your ass, taint your balls) right between his anus and sack is very sensitive, extra attention there when he is close can be that little extra he needs to cum.
Most guys also like to have there balls licked or sucked. If he wants this make him shave, no one wants a bunch of hair in their mouth.
This should get you started. Remember that variety is what makes the difference. And ask your partner what he likes.
Oh and one more thing, a lot of guys like to grab your head and push you up and down. Or they start moving their hips. Be careful, he doesn’t know your limits and can gag you, puking on him is never attractive. If he is getting carried away make him stop. Better yet don’t let him start.
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