I'm a single bi-sexual poly/swinger searching for love but having lots of fun along the way
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Monday, July 30, 2012
I'm in love
so i am head over heels in love with B and he with me.
it's been a whirl wind few weeks, seeing each other lots.
I finally have someone to swing with! been testing the waters on line seeing what couples we can meet up with ect. so far have two I've been talking to but none we have met yet. besides D&G that i met before B and I started dating.
B seems to be everything I've been looking for, he's kind and caring, treats me well and will do anything for me (within reason). and he doesn't want to restrict me in any way. so our relationship is a totally open swinger thing. our only rule is that if we have sex separately that we tell the other person before if possible or after. That gives me the freedom i need.
But something happened the other day that i want to talk about.
B got kicked out of the room he was renting from a friend simply because he came out to them as a swinger! they said it was a moral issue. This is why most swingers are so in the closet. we still get discriminated against for our sexual choices. Really it's none of their business. He only told them because he had to explain the girl he had over for the night. it just makes me sad that some people can be so closed minded.
This is why i am so open about being a swinger. if i decide i want to be friends with someone i come out to them about being bi and a swinger. I see how they react and that is how i can tell if i can be friends with them or not. I just like to lay all my cards on the table right away. i figure why waste time with people who are going to judge me.
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