So it's been a whole month since i have heard from R (guy from up north) he was supposed to try to come out for my birthday on the 16th but i never heard back from him. I tried to e-mail him but still no response. i am both worried something may have happened to him and thinking this may be just his way of dumping me. ether way I'll give him one more week then I'll have to move on and start dating again. I already met one new guy, S, just a FWB guy though. he's a drummer, only 38 and very sexy. hopefully going to see him again on Saturday.