update

been a bit of a busy week.
A and T invited me to a swinger Halloween party on the 29th. can't wait! I am dressing Egyptian this year, have some white sheer material to work with. and because they are in walking distance to me I can go myself and not have to worry about trying to find a date.

j from my biker couple came for a visit. went great as usual.


the next day I had a first date with a new guy, M. he's Hungarian and has a very thick accent. I had a hard time understanding him sometimes. He seems nice. I guess I am not terribly excited about him, normally I would be but C is kinda distracting my attention.

still talking to C on the phone he used to be a counselor, which explains his mellow soothing counselor voice. I did invite him to the Halloween party but he is not sure if he can afford to come out here just yet, but i am betting he just might prioritize it. but like I said earlier I can go no matter what so I am not stressed about it at all. so far I do prefer him to M. Not sure why just seems like more of a connection, maybe it's his soothing voice lol. Last time I talked to him he said he was surprised I hadn't asked him what he looked like. I told him it was because it is the least important thing about him. He described himself as having a beard and long hair, a hippy biker look. Not what I was expecting from a counselor, black belt kinda guy but it's all good. To be honest though picturing a biker looking guy teaching Martial arts makes me giggle. I'm gonna have to ask him how long his beard is...the longer it is the funnier the picture in my head is hehehe.

As a side note a guy from waaay back, S, keeps e-mailing me asking how I am doing ect. I stopped trying to see him when he just couldn't keep a date got left waiting to often. I don't mind chatting with him, but he would have to do something pretty major for me to get interested in him.