perfect?

so i met a guy on line last night, C, and then we chatted on the phone for a bit.
He lives a bit far away. however he seems perfect for me.

he has 11 acres grows his own vegetables and herbs (he's a herbalist) hunts all his own meat. He's a 4th degree black belt, teaches Martial arts. writes children's books (published)
and he is into the swinger lifestyle. oh and even makes his own beer!

he's basically living the lifestyle I want to live. I would add some chickens and a milking cow though lol I enjoyed talking to him, he's seems real nice. He's already talking about coming here to met me next weekend or the weekend after that.

He almost seems to perfect. Like the guy who lived up north, he seemed perfect too but then he just stopped talking to me with no explanation, just poof, gone. I always wonder, when something seems too good to be true. I wonder what is wrong with him. I wonder if I'll just meet him once and never hear from him again. I should be more positive. I have this little excited spark in me, but I am scared to hope too much that this one is THE one.

As for the last guy W, well he called once said he would try to come over if he could get a ride, haven't heard from him since. So you see why I do not want to get too excited about someone, been doing the dating thing for too long now and nothing has happened. It's all getting far to repetitive. I still hope though. There is always that little spark when I meet someone I am into.