bad choices

so the party guy

Here is the whole story on him.
He has a girl friend, and told me they had an open relationship and that she regularly played with girls, and that he was aloud to play separate. I told him that when I saw her next I was going to talk to her and ask her. I thought this would insure honesty on his part.

My usual rule is to talk to the woman in person and ask before I ever play with the guy separate, but I was horny and it all seemed on the up and up.

However he did not tell her we had played, his excuse was she never asked.
The next time when he showed up with some friends and we got very very drunk, and played at the end of the night. Apparently she then asked him if we had sex and his excuse was that he did not remember.

So with all that happening I went over to there house for a few drinks ect, thinking that everything was all OK...As soon as I walked in the door, his girlfriend gave me a dirty look and I knew something was wrong. So I had a few drinks to work up my nerve and went up to her and told her he had told me they had an open relationship and I asked if that was true. she of course wanted to know what we had done already. she was not happy.

I was just hoping she wasn't gonna start hitting me,she said she wanted to. I apologised ,a lot,and admitted that yes I should have talked to her first.
Then came the twist, she said she wanted to have sex with me, and wanted me to strip for her. I said that seemed fair. but in the end she was just too upset, so I left and told her I wouldn't come back without her permission.

soo I went against my own rules and it bit me in the ass, and it caused problems with someone elses relationship. I feel terrible about the whole thing.

so lesson learned, hope