New Years swinger party

WOW an amazing night all round and the best new years so far!

my date picked me up early around 6pm after driving all day form where he lives. I'll call him M.
we got to almost there and he realized he had lost the address and phone number for the party.so we stopped where there were a bunch of people and tried to get someone with a phone and Internet so i could get the address off my hot mail account, that didn't work, so M phones the motel we were going to stay at that night and got customer service to use there Internet and go on my hot mail, LOL great problem solving i think, and he didn't even get too upset or loose his cool and get mad...always a good sign for me.

so we got to the party and there were soo many munchies and orderves, great spread and it was such a reasonable price to get in the door too. i really have to had it to the swinger couple for putting on a great party. there was even a sex swing in the basement living room! there was at least 30+ couples there and a few singles. for the first part of the night everyone was just talking and getting to know everyone. a lot of very nice people. now i know you all want to here about the sex part, but they really stressed that we don't talk about what happened at the party...but i get give you a general idea, just not details.

a bit later in the evening people started to drift to the down stairs where all the couches were covered with sheets. pretty soon someone had to try out the swing, her partner was in a wheel chair so they had a lot of fun with it.
then they opened up the hot tub, only a couple people actually brought swim suits. the hot tub was huge too, like the size of 2 average ones. eventually me and M just had to play. right there in the living room some people watching others busy talking to each other like nothing was happening and others playing as well. that pretty much went on all night. i ended up playing with M and another guy with a huge mustache, so he will be mustache guy, and another girl..i had started flirting with her every time i got my coat (she was right in the way..i would rub up nice and close and playing with her boobs..eventually i got to do more. i also met a girl that as is turns out lives about 4 blocks from me! she's very cute and young, just my type...i got her e-mail address so i am going to try to get to know her.

this was such an amazing experience for me. if i compare it to going to the bar...people are more polite and respectful..nudity is not a big deal, there were people of all ages and sizes and that was ok, at the bar it all about looks and the young, people are not polite, I've had guys grab me bite my hair and other things. i think the quality of people at the party was way better, probably because they are all pre-screened by the host and hostess. and i know these people always use protection and get checked on a regular basis, at the bar you just never know. and the best part is that no one judges you, no one will think lesser of you for getting naked and having fun. I would never even flash anyone at a bar because then people look at you like a slut....so i can go to the bar and pick up new guys all the time and live a risky life or choose this much more controlled environment, after a few parties I'll get to know more people, it's always mostly the same people like a fun loving private group. and they all have high sex drives and look at relationships the same way i do. there i am one of many, not the odd girl with the sex addiction. and you know what the whole night i didn't see one person get in a fight, or even an argument with there spouse....most any other bar or house party has at least on of those happen as people get too drunk...we were more focused on enjoying each other.

If there ever was even a little doubt about me deciding to having swinging be my lifestyle, it is gone. it may not be the norm. but there are a lot of people out there that live like this and are happier in there marriages or relationships then most people.