Two guys

I just got to have a 3 way with two guys, so much fun! it was with my bf, B, and the second D I play with. I so love being able to share my playmates with my bf. It's just so much of a turn on. now we just have to find a single girl to play with. This weekend we are going to the nude beach with the first D so another 3 way for me! plus we do tend to get an audience when we play at the beach. and i do like to be watched. should be a fun day.

4 way

me and B had our first 4 way with another couple, C&T. it was a blast. it was such a turn on to see B doing her from behind while she licked me and I gave her man head. they are such a fun couple. they seem to like B as well. looking forward to playing with them again. things are going so well with B, so glad we were able to take it to the next level.

nude beach

just got back from the nude beach with D and G we had a blast! when we started playing we ended up with a bit of a crowd watching us lol. and i gave a complete stranger a blow job. lol i did manage to give my phone number to a couple so me and B can play with them. hope it works out. can't wait to tell B all about my day.

I'm in love

so i am head over heels in love with B and he with me. it's been a whirl wind few weeks, seeing each other lots. I finally have someone to swing with! been testing the waters on line seeing what couples we can meet up with ect. so far have two I've been talking to but none we have met yet. besides D&G that i met before B and I started dating. B seems to be everything I've been looking for, he's kind and caring, treats me well and will do anything for me (within reason). and he doesn't want to restrict me in any way. so our relationship is a totally open swinger thing. our only rule is that if we have sex separately that we tell the other person before if possible or after. That gives me the freedom i need. But something happened the other day that i want to talk about. B got kicked out of the room he was renting from a friend simply because he came out to them as a swinger! they said it was a moral issue. This is why most swingers are so in the closet. we still get discriminated against for our sexual choices. Really it's none of their business. He only told them because he had to explain the girl he had over for the night. it just makes me sad that some people can be so closed minded. This is why i am so open about being a swinger. if i decide i want to be friends with someone i come out to them about being bi and a swinger. I see how they react and that is how i can tell if i can be friends with them or not. I just like to lay all my cards on the table right away. i figure why waste time with people who are going to judge me.

new boy friend

So I officially have a new boyfriend. B is just so good to me and everyone who knows him says he is a good upstanding guy. We spent the whole week together, when he wasn't volunteering and the local soup kitchen anyways. i decided he was worth the risk. it's hard for me to take that risk, after i have been so hurt in the past. I've been single and happy for the last 4 years. Just hope things stay happy is all. I feel like i am always waiting for the other shoe to drop. waiting to see his bad side.... well I will just have to wait and see, and hope.

new guy

so in my last post i mentioned B who is spoiling me, well he is spending the weekend and we are acting like a couple of horny teenagers lol. he is easy to talk to fun to be with and he has this way of worshiping me that i could very much get used to. he doesn't have all the qualities i look for in a guy, but he has all the important ones. we agreed it would strictly be a FWB thing but i may find myself taking him more seriously.

moving on

i am moving on now, still haven't heard from R so i am going to just give up on that. In the last 2 weeks i have met two nice guys, both kinda sexy. B and S. S is a drummer, only 38, seems very nice. B i actually met here in town and was surprised to find out he was a swinger. he is spoiling me rotten with back and foot rubs. I am sad things have ended with R but excited to me new people.

So it's been a whole month since i have heard from R (guy from up north) he was supposed to try to come out for my birthday on the 16th but i never heard back from him. I tried to e-mail him but still no response. i am both worried something may have happened to him and thinking this may be just his way of dumping me. ether way I'll give him one more week then I'll have to move on and start dating again. I already met one new guy, S, just a FWB guy though. he's a drummer, only 38 and very sexy. hopefully going to see him again on Saturday.

hitachi magic wand

i finally got the Hitachi magic wand I have wanted for so very long. I am very excited, just tried it out and it works so very well! i recommend it to anyone, and no this is not an add I am just a big fan lol. D bought it for me. he is such a nice guy! As for other events, not too much has been happening, I am still taking a break from meeting new single guys. Last time i spoke to R (guy from the north I am totally into) he told me he had sold his house and was looking forward to moving to my area by the end of summer. So then we can date like normal people. I am very excited about it. But when he moves here I am going to have to call it off with D. Even though he is a nice guy I am not falling for him like I am R. I am even taking a break meeting new couple, i just want to see which of the ones i have met are going to turn into regulars before i meet any new ones.C&T seem to keep coming back at least. Haven't heard much from anyone else in awhile though. so that's all I have been up to lately.

sex tip #19

Over worked partners do not want sex. Studies show that the number one way to make a woman want sex is to help clean the house.