OMG spell check is gone! I'll just appologise now for my terrible spelling.
so over the years I've talked to many girls and guys about the size issue. you know what? I have only met a few women who like large dicks, I am reffering to anything over say 6 inches. I generally beleeve that those women are a bit bigger inside then most women.
you see most women find that anything over 6 or 7 inches hurts. myself personaly I will not even date guys who tell be they are over 7 inches. it just hurts me too much. and frankly it's harder to give them head as well. with size comes girth and i do not have a big mouth.
so every one seems to be hung up on size, most guys are about 5-6 inches in my experiance and i am just fine with that. but if you think about it the average to small guys have it made...they are more likely to get head, and for longer periods of time--if you are easy on the jaw, you end up getting more...they are also more likely to talk a girl into letting them try anal.--smaller again means less pain.
on the other hand big guys do have girls who wont even give them a chance...the bigger they are the less girls out there that want to try it, they will get less head and if you have a 9 incher good luck talking a girl into anal, unless she already does it on a regular basis and is stretched. plus big 8-9 inch guys all over will tell you they have to be more carefull when having intercourse so he doesn't hurt her...only once in awhile do they meet a girl who can take it all and he can pound her. now who wants to have to be carefull...I'd rather have a smaller guy who can pound me the a big guy who has to hold back a bit.
I've really only once in my life met a guy who was "too small" i couldn't feel him in me. mostly becouse he didn't have much girth. however he still made sure i was satisfied with toys. so as far as i was concerned it was all good.
another touchy subject is just being able to get it hard and keep it hard
viagra helps but not many of us can afford $15 a pill..kinda like "well we can't afford to have sex tonight dear"... lol
so yes guys i do feel for you when you are having problems, but does that have to mean that you do not satisfy your women?
Men seem to think that in sex it is all about their dicks, sooo wrong.
you should still satisfy your woman no matter what, that way you will not lose her along with not being able to get it up.
as far as i am conserned it's all about the for play. i know it's a bad word for you guys. but here me out. with about an hour of for play and making sure she has already had an orgasim or two...well with less presure to perform right away you get to relax and enjoy your partner, and will probably get a hard on in the prosess (providing you don't have a sereus problem) and if you get soft again go back to making her happy. i find sometimes fingers actually feel better then a dick, dicks don't bend the way fingers can. figures are way better at finding the G-spot. I am told by many guys that have problems that at least still playing and touching is better then nothing, it's not always about having an orgasim. sometimes i feel bad they haven't had one, but they at least make sure I am taken care of... and guys if you take care of her, she won't even be bothered that you couldn't get it up LOL
just one more point.
if you are a bit of an over weight guy if you lose 10-20 pounds your dick will get bigger as the fat around it shrinks back....so if you ever wondered if fat guys had smaller ones or if just looked smaller on there big bodies...well it is smaller. i heard it from Dr. OZ on the oprah show ! lol
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