Unexpected visitor

so I hear a knock at the door and it is a guy I thought I would never see again. I met him early this year. he comes over and expects sex, well i do fuck him when he shows, then he tells me he is coming back later or the next day with some booze and weed to party a bit, but the thing is he never comes back!
so again today he shows up. As i mentioned before it's been awhile since I've gotten laid so i am a bit easier to convince. I'm such a slut when it's been awhile.

so he sits down and right away grabs my boob and starts playing with my nipple, hard, almost too hard. then he asks where my toy dildo is, i grab it and after giving him head for a bit I lay back and he starts fucking me with my dildo, soo fast it's not long before i start to cum, but he doesn't stop, just keeps going till i have a few more orgasms. then he asks if i can get my cuffs. ( he likes abuse) so i grab the cuffs and the whip i made for Halloween. I cuff him up and straddle him on the couch. suck his dick, and bite and whip him making him moan rather nicely. he asks me to choke him with the whip then...now I've never done this before (yea another first!) so i wrapped it around his neck making it snug but not cutting of his circulation and continue licking and sucking and biting him. the he asks me to talk dirty to him, now i am good at talking dirty on line just writing it, but out loud I never know what to say, so I just told him I wasn't good at that...I should practice with someone maybe, get better at the dirty talk....so by now I just want to get fucked, so I put the condom on him and ask him to fuck me from behind, but just before he does he pulls the condom off and says he doesn't want to fuck me yet, he wants to wait till tonight when he comes back, so I sit on the couch and he stands on it while I suck him off, then he grabs it and starts masturbating while I lick the tip. when he cums I back up and let him cum on my tits.

then he got dressed and left promising to come back around 6 tonight...my bet is he does his disappearing act again and I won't see him for a few months again when he decides he's horny again..but I did tell him if he didn't come back tonight I wouldn't let him come in next time ( me putting my foot down after I get laid LOL)

the really bad thing is that I don't remember his name! I Haven't seen him for months so his name left my memory bank awhile ago to make room for the names of other people I've met that are still around.

He actually tried to tell me he was bringing a friend of his with him when he came back, I told him no I have to meet people in a no sex gonna happen environment before sleeping with him and anyways he doesn't come around often enough to have the bring a friend privilege.. he also kept talking about finding me a girl to play with even saying he wanted to get a hooker that was into girls...I'm not to keen on this plan either hookers get around too much, when I told him that he said well so do strippers...my answer..strippers sleep with who they want to, hookers sleep with whoever gives them money...a bit different.

so I am not sure about this guy, he's just wanting someone to fuck when he shows up out of the blue, problem is that when he shows up it always seems to be when I am horny so I'm letting him do this to me. I think I won't next time, but that's what I said last time. maybe I just like that he likes abuse and pain. he's deffinatly NOT Mr. right....so why do i waist my time with him...just hornyness? I'm not even sure.