bad first dates

ok so i had i first date the other day, was a lunch date and i had assured the guy i wasn't going to sleep with him on the first date and probaby not even the second date.

I have too many first dates, only half the second dates and even less third dates, so i would be gettting around too much if i slept with everyone on the first or second date.

so we met at a local pub, i picked a seat but he didn't like ti, around too many people, so he insisted we go upstair where we are the only ones, for more privacy.

so he's asking all kinds of questions about me and being poly, hardly talking about himself even though i tried to ask him some questions. About every 5 minutes he told me how hot i was.
told me he hadn't had sex in 2 years becouse he was so picky. i highly dout that. my guess it's becouse he can't get a girl.

so as we are talking he starts reaching over and grabing at my leg like every 10 minutes.
then i notice his hand is under the table, and it looks to me like he is stroking himself!
if he wasn't not sure what he was doing, it was too long to be just adjusting himself or scratching. very creeepy.

then he reaches across the table and tries to grab my boob, right in the resteraunt! not a first date thing to do thats for sure.
so after he droped me off i was online with him and he asked me if my fiend was cute and if he could see a picture of her... now i had told him at lunch that i do not play with this friend, so why does it matter if she is cute? and why does he need her picture? again creepy.

so after thinking about it and sharing this with friends we all decided he is too creepy.

so this moning i tell him i don't want to see him again and why. he tells me i am delutional and he didn't want to see me again anyway-- but the only reason he gave me was that i didn't say thank you (for lunch) at the end of the date.... now maybe this is just me but i don't feel i need to say thank you on a date, maybe say i had a good time or just give them a kiss at the end (can tell alot from a kiss) why should i thank him? not like he did me a huge favor, he wanted to see me too, so why didn't he thank me?

sometimes you just gotta shake your head and move on...

so other bad dates i have had, ready for a laugh??

one guy took me to a sports bar, and the whole night watched the game over my shoulder, even turned the game on in the car on the drive home....if you are that into a game make the date another night, right?

another guy was on his way to pick me up, i was giving him directions to a local store...then i heard another guy in the car, i asked who it was, he told me that we were droping him off before our date. he actually expected me to get into a car, on a first date with two guys in the car! a girl could get raped doing something like that, and he realy realy didn't get how it was so wrong... for months after he would call me and try to get me to go out with him.

another guy, after he got a little tippsy kept going on about office workers, he aparently didn't like them and was under the oppinion that they thought to much of themselves ect ect. he went on for a bit...when i am working i am a file clerk (office worker)... he just seemed so angry, i think he resented them just becouse they made more money then he did... to angry for me anyways.

and before you think it is just the guys

had a first date with a woman a few years back, the date went fine (i thought) but when i got back to her she accused me of steeling her phone! like just becouse i am poor i would steel her phone. she lost it i guess that night, but for her to be soo sure it was me, like every poor person is a thief....kinda hurt.

well that is all for bad dates for now, hope you had a good chuckle